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Right Off the Top of My Head Top 3 Tips for a Memorable Family Reunion
by Craig Richards June 1, 2002
It's estimated that 20 million family members gather at some 400,000 reunion events each year, spending more than $1.6 billion, making family reunions a full-fledged industry. Even better, there are lots of resources (many online) available to those who are planning a gathering of the clan, whether their first or fiftieth.
Aside from family gatherings organized throughout each summer (by far the best months due to breaks in work and school schedules), many reunions are also planned for the winter holidays. My own family has a get-together at Easter and also a weekend near Christmas.
Additionally, though not often thought of as a "reunion" are spontaneous family gatherings at milestone events such as births, graduations, weddings and funerals.
As the founder and publisher at FamilyReunion, one of the questions I am most often asked is, "What are the most important things to keep in mind when planning a family reunion?" Though there are many great books on the topic (some of which I've highlighted below), in this installment of Connections, I submit for your consideration my own Top 3 Tips for a Memorable Family Reunion...
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Craig Richards, founder and publisher
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Top 3 Tips for a Memorable Family Reunion
Plan Early. But Don't Overplan.
Start organizing well before your gathering the more expected to attend, the earlier you'll want to plan.
Remember, though, your gathering is about people. When attendees look back at your reunion, what they'll cherish most is quality time spent with long-lost family members. A reunion crammed with a frenzy of activities leaves little time for visiting and re-establishing those family ties that give us a sense of "roots" and much-needed permanence (in our otherwise fast-paced society).
Whether your reunion is centered around a potluck picnic in a neighborhood park or a on weekend cruise, try to keep your focus on your family and less on activities that, while entertaining, may only serve to distract from your memorable event.
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Mix Up Your Families.
No, I don't mean you should confuse them. Just like when arranging where guests sit at a wedding reception, do your best to get family members to mingle. Social activities and games that get folks moving around work best. I also like the idea of having a member from each branch of the family stand up and share that family's struggles, achievements and milestones The kind of stuff my parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles used to share in their frequent letters. These days, letter-writing seems to be a lost art, so a reunion is a great opportunity to move past presumptions about other family members and really get to know them and their experiences, share the burdens and acknowledge each other's accomplishments. To me, that's what family's really about!
We are all busy these days and, at first, it can be difficult to recruit helpers. But it's sure worth the effort. Planning a gathering for a few hundred or a even few dozen guests can overwhelm the best of us especially as the big day or weekend approaches. I speak from experience, here folks!
The more you can "spread the joy," you will turn passive attendees who may simply arrive and wait to be entertained into participants with a sense "ownership" of the event.
Ron and Bo McCoy, descendants of the famous feuding families, and hundreds of volunteers, have turned their reunion into a festival that's spread across three counties and into two states (Kentucky and West Virginia) complete with corporate sponsors and news media in attendance from around the world!
Certainly their event has grown but, to me, the real success of the Hatfield & McCoy Reunion is that Ron and Bo say they actually enjoy going to their reunion and catching up with family and friends. And isn't that what we all want?
Must-Have Resources for Reunion Planners
There are literally thousands upon thousands of websites on what has become one of the web's most popular topics: Family history and reunions. Lots of them are in our searchable Resource Guide and here are a small handful of sites that have become popular among members of our community to help you get started...
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